| Location | Glasgow |
| Age | 55 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 21/06/1954 |
| Date of Death | 27/09/2009 |
| Visitors | 697 since 05/10/2009 |
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Dad i Love and miss you i still canβt believe youβre gone.
My dad had cancer 10 years ago before he passed away in September 2009, this terrible diseases started in his prostate and he had an operation an stuff to remove it i can remember visiting him in hospital at this time but didn't quite know the half of it as i was young and naive, after that he was clear for 10 years and got on with his life work and family life.
after 10 years we noticed dad wasn't too well he had become very irritable and agitated and was in so much pain so my mum made him go to the doctors, they told him he had a urine infection and gave him some tablets but after 2 weeks he was still no better so mum made him phone the doctors again by this time the pain he must have been in you could only imagine he was getting he couldn't sit down without pain and he says that it was the work he was doing and cause he was bending all the time, load a rubbish so 1 day he was on the phone to the doctors and ma mum hear him tell the doctor I THINK MY CANCER HAS RETURNED
alarm bells started ringing and mum informed me of what she had heard i was devastated as we all were but hoped all would be ok but that wasn't to be and it ended up with me on the phone to the doctor and i had to fretting the doctor with the health board before they done anything, they told me everything that should be getting done was being done i.e. tests and referrals but just not fast enough for me as i watched my dad in so much pain, that day i phoned and fretted the doctor my dad was admitted to hospital that's same week dad was on the phone to my mum tell her you no i have the BIG C my mum broke down and phoned me to let me know the terrible news but worst was to come, after a few tests and thing dads consultant wanted to see immediate family i will never forget that day it was the day before my brothers birthday the 15th of august 2009 and a Saturday morning so me mum and my brother headed to the hospital knowing something was very bad but we thought big opp and lots of chemo or radiotherapy but no it was the worst news we had ever heard the doctor and consultant kept going on about all the tests and stuff when ma mum just blurted it out so whatβs the outcome and what operationβs does he need? Doctor says we're sorry we canβt do anything more for your husband he had cancer in the liver the lungs and the bones and only had 2 weeks to 2 month to live....
BIGGEST SHOCK EVER
i looked at my dadβs face which had turn grey and that was me a had to leave the room a was so upset and couldn't control myself as i knew i could do anything to help him all i could do was crumble...
but we did what my dad wished he wanted and that was to go home and be with his family, my dad lived for 6 weeks after that and had gave us all his orders right down to funeral arrangements.
my dad passed away on the 27th of September not to mention on my cousin Angela's birthday and peaceful with me and my partner Graham by his side, he waited to my mum and his friend Roddy felt the room just as he wanted so Iβve been told he just wanted me his only daughter by his side
Dad i love you and canβt believe you left us Karen xxx
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~R.I.P~ dad love u xxxx
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow
Hold tight to memories for comfort,
lean on your friends for strength,
and always remember how much you are cared about.
Your life was full of loving deeds, Forever thoughtful of our special needs,
Today and tomorrow, my whole life through, I will always love and cherish you
You left us so suddenly, your thoughts unknown,
You left us memories, we are proud to own
LOVE ALWAYS HALINA XXXX
♥ In my eyes you're by my side ♥
♥ In my ears you are my guide ♥
♥ In my mind you touch my hand ♥
♥ In my head I understand ♥
♥ In my heart you're always here ♥
♥ In my home you're always near ♥
♥ Death may take but cannot part ♥
♥ For you are always in my heart ♥
Ur always in my heat love u dad xxx
trials and tribulations
All the hardships that you face in life,
all the tests and tribulations,
all the nightmares,
and all the losses,
most people still view as curses,
... as punishments by God,
as something negative.
If you would only know
that nothing that comes to you is negative.
I mean nothing.
All the trials and tribulations,
and the biggest losses that you ever experience,
things that make you say,
"If I had known about this,
I would never have been able to make it through,"
are gifts to you,
opportunities that you are given to grow.
That is the sole purpose of existence
on this planet Earth.
You will not grow if you sit in a beautiful flower garden
and somebody brings you gorgeous food on a silver platter.
But you will grow if you are sick,
if you are in pain,
if you experience losses,
and if you do not put your head in the sand,
but take the pain and learn to accept it,
not as a curse or punishment,
but as a gift to you
with a very, very specific purpose
good days and bad days :(
Some days i am happy, some days i feel pain.
I look at ur picture in the frame,
i know i cant see u, or touch u
but i do feel u around, this is true!
I wish i could have you here, its all soo wrong
...you have been gone from me far too long!!!
Altho im always going to have these good and bad days
i have u forever with me guiding me the right way ♥
Tears cant bring u back to me
but smiles can relive the good memories ♥
you raise me up
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You Raise Me Up
When I am down
And oh my soul so weary
When trouble comes
And my heart burdened be
Then I am still and wait here in the silence
Until you come and spend awhile with me
You raise me up so I can walk on mountains
You raise me up to walk on stormy seas
I am strong when I am on your shoulders
You raise me up to more than I can be
There is no life no life without its hunger
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly
But when you come and I am filled with wonder
Sometimes I think I glimpse eternity
You raise me up so I can walk on mountains
You raise me up to walk on stormy seas
I am strong when I am on your shoulders
You raise me up to more than I can be
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Are beautiful Angels full of love
They think of their loved ones everyday
And send them peace as they kneel to pray
They say a prayer for those below
Who deeply love them and miss them so
They vanish all their emptiness and all their fears
Mop their brows when they see the tears
Although their is a distance they are by our side
They have seen the emptiness and the tears cried
They are always near and always will be
Alive in our hearts today and for eternity.
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karen xxx
st patricks day
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♥. ♥ ♥ ♥ HAPPY ST PATRICKS DAY ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
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♥ 17/03/11
St. Patrick's Day
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St. Patrick's Day is here, you see.
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We'll pick some shamrocks, one, two, three.
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We'll count the leaves and look them over,
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And maybe find a four-leafed clover.
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I'll sew green buttons on my vest,
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Green for St. Patrick is the best.
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I'll wear a green hat, very high,
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And dance a jig--at least I'll try!
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lots of love from double trouble
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